Series: The Importance of…

The Importance of Mothers

 

INTRO: I want to wish all of you a happy Mothers’ Day. I am going to continue with the series, The Importance of… today. Of course the obvious message for today is: “The Importance of Mothers.” I could simply say very and sit down and would be correct, but I want to see what the Bible has to say about mothers’ importance.

 

To begin, we surely know that…

Motherhood is not easy

 

While it is just a rumor for me, I hear it is difficult…

In birth


Genesis 3:16(NKJV) 16To the woman He said: “I will greatly multiply your sorrow and your conception; In pain you shall bring forth children; Your desire shall be for your husband, And he shall rule over you.”

 

In illness

 

Matthew 15:22-28(NKJV) 22And behold, a woman of Canaan came from that region and cried out to Him, saying, “Have mercy on me, O Lord, Son of David! My daughter is severely demon-possessed.”
23But He answered her not a word. And His disciples came and urged Him, saying, “Send her away, for she cries out after us.”
24But He answered and said, “I was not sent except to the lost sheep of the house of Israel.”
25Then she came and worshiped Him, saying, “Lord, help me!”
26But He answered and said, “It is not good to take the children’s bread and throw it to the little dogs.”
27And she said, “Yes, Lord, yet even the little dogs eat the crumbs which fall from their masters’ table.”
28Then Jesus answered and said to her, “O woman, great is your faith! Let it be to you as you desire.” And her daughter was healed from that very hour.

 

Mother willing to plead for her daughter

 

She would not give up - 23

 

Recognized a greater One than she – 25

 

She trusted The Lord – 27-28

 

Her daughter was blessed because of her faith - 28

 

In problems and tough situations

 

Genesis 21:14-17(NKJV) 14So Abraham rose early in the morning, and took bread and a skin of water; and putting it on her shoulder, he gave it and the boy to Hagar, and sent her away. Then she departed and wandered in the Wilderness of Beersheba.
15And the water in the skin was used up, and she placed the boy under one of the shrubs.
16Then she went and sat down across from him at a distance of about a bowshot; for she said to herself, “Let me not see the death of the boy.” So she sat opposite him, and lifted her voice and wept.
17And God heard the voice of the lad. Then the angel of God called to Hagar out of heaven, and said to her, “What ails you, Hagar? Fear not, for God has heard the voice of the lad where he is.

 

Abraham was in a fix

 

Sarah his wife wanted Hagar and Ishmael out of their life

 

Abraham was reluctant to send them (Ishmael) away

 

God told Abraham He would take care of them

 

Hagar was in a tough spot too

 

God took care of them

 

I don’t have to tell you…

In everyday care and nurturing (motherhood is a lot of stress and work)

 

Daily care

 

Sickness

 

Life and experiential learning or teaching

 

Refereeing

 

Consoling


But we need to understand, that although motherhood is not easy…

Motherhood can be very rewarding

 

I mean…

Have you seen some of those cute little kids

(or as my Grandma Marcum would say) or little darlings?

 

All that little children (and grown children) do that is a blessing

 

Their…

Achievements galore

 

Antics of laughter

 

Awesome faith

 

Attitudes of helpfulness

 

Attachments in love

 

Hand in guiding them into adulthood

 

Strong

 

Self-sufficient

 

Stable

 

Serving their own household

 

Serving God

 

2 Timothy 1:1-7(NKJV) 1Paul, an apostle of Jesus Christ by the will of God, according to the promise of life which is in Christ Jesus,
2To Timothy, a beloved son: Grace, mercy, and peace from God the Father and Christ Jesus our Lord.
3I thank God, whom I serve with a pure conscience, as my forefathers did, as without ceasing I remember you in my prayers night and day,
4greatly desiring to see you, being mindful of your tears, that I may be filled with joy,
5when I call to remembrance the genuine faith that is in you, which dwelt first in your grandmother Lois and your mother Eunice, and I am persuaded is in you also.
6Therefore I remind you to stir up the gift of God which is in you through the laying on of my hands.
7For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.

Although many men think differently…

Motherhood is not meant to be lonely

 

Help wanted

 

Help definitely needed

 

Help should be given (fathers should help)

 

Colossians 3:17-21(KJV) 17And whatsoever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by him.
18Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.
19Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.
20Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord.
21Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.

 

Help should be taught and shared too

 

Titus 2:3-5(NKJV) 3the older women likewise, that they be reverent in behavior, not slanderers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things—
4that they admonish the young women to love their husbands, to love their children,
5to be discreet, chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be blasphemed.

 

Motherhood is critical to our homes and society

 

I know this next scripture is not usually applied to mothers, but see if they fit this today…

 

Matthew 5:3-9(KJV) 3Blessed are the poor in spirit: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
4Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted.
5Blessed are the meek: for they shall inherit the earth.
6Blessed are they which do hunger and thirst after righteousness: for they shall be filled.
7Blessed are the merciful: for they shall obtain mercy.
8Blessed are the pure in heart: for they shall see God.
9Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God.

 

There needs to be a…

Grace (love) that draws the family together

 

Meekness that becomes real to little eyes that sees all

 

Faithfulness that fills hearts so impressionable

 

Glue that helps hold the family together

 


Motherhood is meant to be a continuation in life

 

We learn from those close to us

 

We share with those beside us

 

We give to those who are able to reach out to us

 

They give to those next to them

 

Mothers need to know the Lord, show the Lord, and share the Lord with her own family that their families might also know the Lord, show the Lord and share the Lord with their own families.

 

What can we men learn from this today?

 

God uses godly mothers and women to help do His work

 

Romans 16:1-3(NKJV) 1I commend to you Phoebe our sister, who is a servant of the church in Cenchrea,
2that you may receive her in the Lord in a manner worthy of the saints, and assist her in whatever business she has need of you; for indeed she has been a helper of many and of myself also.
3Greet Priscilla and Aquila, my fellow workers in Christ Jesus,

 

Recognize that fact

 

Rejoice for them in the Lord and encourage them

 

Reach souls together for God

 

Gary Marcum – New Beginnings Church – 050910am