Series: The Importance of…

The Importance of Love Matters

 

INTRO: How important are things in your life? What do you hold as precious? Today, I want to start a series on IMPORTANCE. I want to look at things that are important. Today, is Valentine’s Day. Today I want to look at the importance of LOVE in our lies.

 

I missed you last Sunday…I know this will sound selfish, but I did not miss the snow that visited us last weekend.

 

1 Corinthians 13:1-13(NKJV) 1Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal.
2And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.
3And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body £to be burned, but have not love, it profits me nothing.
4Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up;
5does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil;
6does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth;
7bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
8Love never fails. But whether there are prophecies, they will fail; whether there are tongues, they will cease; whether there is knowledge, it will vanish away.
9For we know in part and we prophesy in part.
10But when that which is perfect has come, then that which is in part will be done away.
11When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things.
12For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall know just as I also am known.
13And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.

 

Love is truly special. It is something worth holding onto. It helps us overlook deficiencies and helps others overlook ours as well.

 

When we look at this scripture, we see…

 

It IS important – 1-3

 

It lasts – 4

 

It is kind – 4

 

It acts right – 4,5

 

It is not so touchy - 4

 

It cheers us on – 6, 7

 

It is strong - 8

 

It is the best - 13

I want to look at love in different areas of our life today. Love affects every aspect of most peoples lives. There are individuals who have no love for others. Love is a foreign concept to them, but we are blessed with love. God is love and he has given us that special thing.

 

First let us see how love permeates…

Our family

 

From birth

 

Proverbs 22:6(KJV) 6Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.

 

Love calls for PROTECTION to be provided

 

An example is seen in a fire that happened in Indy yesterday

 

The Man could not get back into the house

 

The woman covered the little girl with her body

 

 

Love encourages NURTURE

 

Russian orphans withheld love and nurture never functioned right

 

I would not want to be in a world without love.

 

Did you know that when we pass over “Jordan” or die and go to be with the Lord, we will be in the presence of Love?

 

On the other side of this, if we die and are separated from God – in hell – we will be in the absence of ALL LOVE!

 

Think about this.

 

Love brings SUPPORT to ones in need

 

Luke 11:11-13(KJV) 11If a son shall ask bread of any of you that is a father, will he give him a stone? or if he ask a fish, will he for a fish give him a serpent?
12Or if he shall ask an egg, will he offer him a scorpion?
13If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children: how much more shall your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to them that ask him?

 

Love is willing to sacrifice

 

Our friends

 

Comfort and help

 

Proverbs 27:10(KJV) 10Thine own friend, and thy father’s friend, forsake not; neither go into thy brother’s house in the day of thy calamity: for better is a neighbour that is near than a brother far off.

 

Comradeship

 

Proverbs 17:17(KJV) A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.

 

Challenge

 

Proverbs 27:17(NKJV)  As iron sharpens iron, So a man sharpens the countenance of his friend.

 

Our spouse

 

Ephesians 5:22-33(NKJV) 22Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord.
23For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body.
24Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything.
25Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her,
26that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word,
27that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish.
28So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself.
29For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church.
30For we are members of His body, of His flesh and of His bones.
31“For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”  
32This is a great mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and the church.
33Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.

 

Our relationships should be…

Special

 

Spiritual

 

Strong

 

Our church

 

 

Special to God

 

Romans 8:17(KJV) 17And if children, then heirs; heirs of God, and joint-heirs with Christ; if so be that we suffer with him, that we may be also glorified together.

Ephesians 2:19(KJV) 19Now therefore ye are no more strangers and foreigners, but fellowcitizens with the saints, and of the household of God;

 

Special to each other

 

1 Thessalonians 3:12(KJV) And the Lord make you to increase and abound in love one toward another, and toward all men, even as we do toward you:

1 Peter 1:22(NKJV) 22Since you have purified your souls in obeying the truth through the Spirit in sincere love of the brethren, love one another fervently with a pure heart,

 

 

Our Lord

 

He loved us

 

John 15:13(KJV) 13Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.

John 13:1(NKJV) 1Now before the Feast of the Passover, when Jesus knew that His hour had come that He should depart from this world to the Father, having loved His own who were in the world, He loved them to the end.

 

We should love Him (and others)

 

John 15:9(KJV) As the Father hath loved me, so have I loved you: continue ye in my love.

 

Our life

 

John 15:12(KJV) This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you.

 

Love brings…

Greater happiness

 

Better outlook in life

 

Improved future

 

 

 

Gary Marcum – New Beginnings Church – 021410am