Where Do I Find Help This Coming Year? – A Look At Friendship

 

We all face hard times. We all face things we struggle with alone. The questions are, where do we look? Where do we turn? Who do we trust? Who can help us? That is what I want to consider today…Where Do I Find Help This Coming Year?

 

Proverbs 17:17 KJV A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity. 

 

First let us understand…

How important is help?

 

We can know…

The best help comes from God

Psalms 28:7 KJV  The LORD is my strength and my shield; my heart trusted in him, and I am helped: therefore my heart greatly rejoiceth; and with my song will I praise him.
Psalms 40:17 KJV  But I am poor and needy; yet the Lord thinketh upon me: thou art my help and my deliverer; make no tarrying, O my God.
Isaiah 41:10 KJV Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.
Hebrews 13:6 KJV So that we may boldly say, The Lord is my helper, and I will not fear what man shall do unto me.

 

Let us consider Moses in his early life

 

Pharaoh was out to kill him when he did not even know him

 

Yet Moses had some friends…

Shiphrah and Puah (midwives) were his friends when they did not know him, as they feared God – Ex. 1:15

We need friends that honor and fear God above all

 

Moses’ parents were his friends when they hid him for three months, they feared God more than Pharaoh– Ex. 2:2

Parents more than any other ting need to fear and trust God to help them help their children

 

Moses’ mother was his friend when she showed faith and made him a little boat (ark) and placed him on the waters to float - Ex. 2:3

We need mothers that will find a way to help their children in this day and age

 

Moses’ sister was his friend when she looked out for him when he was helpless in the ark among the bulrushes - Ex. 2:4, 7

We need siblings that will stand by us and do their best to help us in life’s difficult times

 

Moses’ adoptive mother was his friend when she looked upon him with compassion - Ex. 2:6

Love is deeper than “blood” and sometimes better able to help us

 

God had befriended Moses and had used His means to help him in life

He has chosen to help us if we but allow

His Son gave His life for each of us

 

 

Let us consider Moses in his middle life

 

Pharaoh was out to kill him when Moses turned to his own people – Ex. 2:15

 

Moses help Reuel’s daughters when they were in need – Ex. 2:17

If we wish to have friends, then we need to be the friendly type – Pro. 18:24

 

Reuel (Jethro) befriended him when he was alone – Ex. 2:20

A friend when we are in trouble is a friend worth having

 

Zipporah became his wife and thus his friend

Do not overlook the value of a family friend

 

God called Moses to be His servant and a friend to the Children of Israel – Ex. 3:10

God wants us to be true friends to those who need the Lord in their lives

 

Aaron, Moses’ brother was glad to be Moses’ friend and helper as servants of God – Ex. 4:14

God wants us to be helpers and friends to His work

 

The best friends are those who worship the Lord together – Ex. 4:31

Not those who party and play

But those who worship and pray

 

Exodus 4:31 KJV 31And the people believed: and when they heard that the LORD had visited the children of Israel, and that he had looked upon their affliction, then they bowed their heads and worshipped.

 

There are no better friends than those who are friends with the Lord mention the former Hamas – Muslim young man who has met Jesus and become His friend

 

The children of Israel thought only of themselves at the moment of time in their struggle of life – Ex. 5:21

There are times when our true friends go unrecognized and unappreciated (by us)

 

Let us consider Moses in his latter life

 

Moses remained a friend with God and His people

A faithful friend is an important friend

 

Deuteronomy 34:10 KJV And there arose not a prophet since in Israel like unto Moses, whom the LORD knew face to face,

 

Proverbs 27:10 KJV Thine own friend, and thy father’s friend, forsake not; neither go into thy brother’s house in the day of thy calamity: for better is a neighbour that is near than a brother far off. 

 

Moses made a difference in people’s lives

Friends help friends even in hard decisions

 

Proverbs 27:17 KJV Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.

 

Moses made mistakes

We are not perfect – but we can serve one who is

 

Let us consider the Friend of Moses today

 

John 3:14-21 KJV 14And as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, even so must the Son of man be lifted up:
15That whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have eternal life.
16For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
17For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.
18He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
19And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.
20For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved.
21But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God. 

 

God truly is our friend

 

He wants us to be His friend too

 

God gave Jesus for our benefit, salvation, rescue, and eternity

 

We can choose Him or we can walk away from Him – our choice

 

Are you God’s friend?

Gary Marcum – New beginnings Church – 010409am